HIGH BURNOUT RISK

You're in Burnout Mode
Let's Get You Out

Burnout doesn’t just drain energy; it reshapes our internal world. It distorts how we think, feel, and relate to others. Emotionally, you may feel numb or constantly on edge. Cognitively, your ability to focus or make decisions might feel hijacked. Relationships can begin to fracture as irritability replaces patience, and detachment crowds out connection.

If you’ve landed in the high-risk zone of burnout, you are not alone. This is a known, researched, and very real state of psychological, physical, and emotional exhaustion. You’re not lazy. You’re not failing. You’re overwhelmed. And it’s time to interrupt the freefall.

This is Where You Turn Things Around.

Understanding Your Results

You scored high on the BAT. You may be in survival mode. Maybe you’re waking up already exhausted. Tasks feel insurmountable. You might feel numb, apathetic, or increasingly cynical. You may dread work, isolate yourself, or experience physical symptoms like headaches, insomnia, digestive issues, or frequent illness.

Your internal dialogue might sound like: “What happened to me?” or “I can’t keep doing this.” You may have stopped caring not because you don’t care, but because you have nothing left to give.

This is burnout in its most acute form and it’s time to take it seriously.

Hit the Action Cards above to get started turning this around.

You're in Burnout Mode. Let's Get You Out.

Burnout isn't weakness. It's a signal.

Burnout doesn’t just drain energy; it reshapes our internal world. It distorts how we think, feel, and relate to others. Emotionally, you may feel numb or constantly on edge. Cognitively, your ability to focus or make decisions might feel hijacked. Relationships can begin to fracture as irritability replaces patience, and detachment crowds out connection.

If you’ve landed in the high-risk zone of burnout, you are not alone. This is a known, researched, and very real state of psychological, physical, and emotional exhaustion. You’re not lazy. You’re not failing. You’re overwhelmed. And it’s time to interrupt the freefall.

How You Might Be Feeling

If you scored high on the BAT, you may be in survival mode. Maybe you’re waking up already exhausted. Tasks feel insurmountable. You might feel numb, apathetic, or increasingly cynical. You may dread work, isolate yourself, or experience physical symptoms like headaches, insomnia, digestive issues, or frequent illness.

Your internal dialogue might sound like: “What happened to me?” or “I can’t keep doing this.” You may have stopped caring not because you don’t care, but because you have nothing left to give.

This is burnout in its most acute form and it’s time to take it seriously.

What Can You Do Right Now

When you’re in crisis-level burnout, small steps matter. Here are practical supports that don’t require you to overhaul your life overnight:

  1. See a healthcare provider. Rule out or address medical contributors like anemia, thyroid dysfunction, depression, or chronic fatigue.

  2. Take short-term medical leave if possible. Use FMLA, sick time, or PTO to step away and stabilize.

  3. Set a “bare minimum” bar. Identify the 3 most essential tasks each day and give yourself permission to let the rest go.

  4. Hydrate, eat protein, sleep. Yes, the basics. Your brain needs fuel to re-engage.

  5. Identify one trusted person you can talk to: a therapist, friend, mentor, or colleague.

  6. Avoid alcohol or stimulants. They increase your stress load and delay recovery. You know this already, don’t “self medicate.”

  7. Use pre-written scripts to ask for help. You don’t need to find the words yourself.

Curate Resources for High Burnout

You need tools that meet you where you’re at:

Caret Care Suggestions

Here’s what we recommend through a trauma-informed, integrative lens:

  1. Ground yourself in your body first. Try a 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise to anchor your nervous system. Until your body believes you’re safe, your mind can’t process.

  2. Radical Acceptance: You don’t have to approve of your burnout. But acknowledging “this is where I am” gives you back some agency.

  3. Cognitive Restructuring: Begin to notice automatic thoughts like “I should be stronger” or “I can’t handle anything” and practice replacing them with neutral truths.

  4. Values-Based Action: Instead of chasing productivity, reconnect with what matters most—even in micro-doses. A smile at your child, stepping into the sun, texting a friend.

  5. Micro-boundaries: Say “no” to one thing per day. One obligation, one meeting, one request. Start reclaiming your energy in tiny bits.

You Are Not Alone. You Are Still Here.

Burnout at this stage can feel like drowning in your own life. But this is not the end of your story. You’re reading this. You’re still reaching. That is strength.

Recovery is possible. But not alone, not all at once, and not without grace. Focus on compassionate consistency. Support, rest, boundaries, and connection are not luxuries, they’re medicine.

Caret Care is here when you’re ready for the next right step. And when you need to just breathe, that’s okay too.

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What Can You Do Right Now

Think of this phase as critical recovery mode. Your system is overloaded. Your priority isn’t just prevention anymore, it’s triage.

Here are some things you can do now to stabilize your energy and reconnect to safety.

    • Eliminate Non-Essentials: Start with a burnout triage checklist. At home, at work, and everywhere else, what can be postponed, canceled, or delegated today?

    • Create a Grounding Plan: Establish 2–3 daily grounding anchors (breathwork, hydration, protein, daylight).

    • Shorten the Time Horizon: You don’t need a 5-year plan. You need a 5-hour plan. Decide what matters right now.

    • Use a Crisis Coping Card: Write down: “What helps when I’m not okay?” Put it somewhere visible. Use it.

    • Name the Exhaustion: You’re not lazy. You’re in nervous system collapse. Name it so you can work with it.

Curate Resources
for Connection

Here Are Hand-Picked Books, Tools, And Practices To Help You Stabilize, Reset, And Begin Recovery From Severe Burnout.

Keep Going
Even When You Feel Like You Can't

There’s no productivity hack for rock bottom. There’s only care, compassion, and a path forward.

It may feel like you’re beyond the point of recovery. But this moment doesn’t define you—what you choose next does. You’re allowed to rest. You’re allowed to pause. You’re allowed to receive support.

The goal isn’t to bounce back. The goal is to rise differently.

Pause here. Breathe. You made it this far.

You don’t have to face burnout alone.
The right help exists and you deserve it.

What Can You Do Right Now:

When you’re in burnout freefall, access to professional help isn’t a bonus, it’s essential. These resources are designed for those at the threshold of their capacity: overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, and on the brink.

 

We’ve included direct links, clear rationale, and notes on what kind of burnout these apply to. Whether from a toxic job, caregiving overload, or unrelenting life pressure, we’re here to guide you.

Immediate Actions to Take Today

    • Use the SAMHSA Treatment Locator: For those needing professional mental health care now. This locator helps you find licensed providers based on your zip code, perfect for identifying outpatient programs or urgent care.
    • Book a Telehealth Appointment Through Open Path Collective: Affordable, sliding-scale therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Especially helpful for those experiencing burnout due to financial strain.

    • Text “HELLO” to 741741 for Crisis Text Line: Confidential support in moments of panic or emotional overwhelm. Ideal for when you need someone immediately but can’t pick up the phone.

    • Call or Chat with 988: 24/7 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. If you’re in burnout that’s crossed into hopelessness, this is your moment to connect.

    • Use Psychology Today’s Advanced Search: Filter by specialization (e.g., workplace trauma, burnout, high-performance stress) to find someone who “gets it.”

    • Employee Assistance Program (EAP): If you’re still employed, request EAP info. They often offer 3–6 free sessions and referrals to coaching, support groups, or financial advisors, all of which can relieve indirect burnout pressure.

Curated Resources
Professional Support

Here Are Hand-Picked Books, Tools, And Practices To Help You Stabilize, Reset, And Begin Recovery From Severe Burnout.

Start Here. Keep Going.

If you’re reading this, it means you’ve already started. That matters.

Burnout doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means you’ve been strong for too long without enough support. You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Use the links above. Text someone. Schedule a call. Order a book. Just do the next right thing.

Save this page. Share it with someone who needs it. Come back when you forget how strong you really are.

Burnout is real.
Let us help you understand how to be there for someone who’s struggling.

What Can You Do Right Now

When a loved one is deep in burnout, it can be hard to know how to show up.

 

Do they need space or support?

Encouragement or quiet company?

 

This guide is here to take the guesswork out. If someone you care about is in burnout freefall, this is your chance to offer real, useful support without overstepping or oversimplifying.

Immediate Actions to Take Today

    • APA: Understanding Burnout: For friends and family new to mental health literacy.
      This will help you identify red flags (withdrawal, irritability, hopelessness).
      You can’t support what you don’t understand.
    • Ask, Don’t Assume: Use questions like, “What would feel helpful right now?” or “Do you want to talk or rest today?” Build trust without pushing.
    • Offer Micro-Support: Bring them water. Text to say you’re thinking of them. Handle a chore they haven’t gotten to. Loved ones whose burnout has made basic functioning hard, showing genle love makes a difference even if it doesn’t look or feel like it.
    • Don’t Take Withdrawal Personally: Burnout isolates people.Caring for yourself by understanding your loved one reframes distance as protection, not rejection.
    • Encourage Professional Help Without Pressure: Say: “Would you be open to talking with someone about how you’re feeling? I can help you find someone.” Do this when they’re clearly not okay, but may resistant to therapy. And refer to the previous bullet when they respond.
    • Call 988 If You’re Concerned About Their Safety: 

      988 is the 24/7 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline offering free, confidential support for anyone in emotional distress or mental health crisis. You can call, text, or chat anytime.

Curate Resources
for Connection

Here Are Hand-Picked Books, Tools, And Practices To Help You Stabilize, Reset, And Begin Recovery From Severe Burnout.

Don’t Guess.
Show Up.

Your support might be the turning point.

Burnout doesn’t mean your loved one is broken. It means they’ve been strong in silence for too long. Be the one who doesn’t look away. Read. Listen. Offer small help. Say, “I’m here, no matter what.”

Bookmark this. Text it to your partner. Print it for your parent. Being present matters more than saying the perfect thing.